feat(onboard): recommendations store with once-semantics and self-naming bootstrap (#110173)

* feat(onboarding): persist app recommendations once

* feat(onboarding): add self-naming birth sequence

* chore(wizard): hoist bootstrap-defer imports to the top of the module

* docs(bootstrap): persist agreed identity into IDENTITY.md and SOUL.md as well

* docs: regenerate docs map after onboarding plan merge

* fix(wizard): reuse a pending stored offer instead of rescanning apps

* fix(onboard): deduplicate bootstrap recommendations

docs/cli/onboard.md

@@ -44,9 +44,25 @@ openclaw onboard --flow manual
 openclaw onboard --flow import
 openclaw onboard --import-from hermes --import-source ~/.hermes
 openclaw onboard --skip-bootstrap
+openclaw onboard recommendations --json
+openclaw onboard recommendations acknowledge
 openclaw onboard --mode remote --remote-url wss://gateway-host:18789
 ```
 
+`openclaw onboard recommendations` reads pending app-recommendation matches
+stored during onboarding. Add `--json` for the machine-readable list used by
+the first-run bootstrap. The command does not rescan installed apps or call a
+model. Its output contains only validated install IDs, source, and tier; it
+intentionally omits untrusted marketplace prose, model reasons, and local app
+labels. After the recommendation offer has been answered, the command returns
+an empty list and future onboarding runs skip the step entirely. A future
+explicit refresh command can clear that accepted state and run discovery again.
+
+Fresh workspaces defer the recommendation choice to the bootstrap conversation.
+After that conversation handles the user's choices,
+`openclaw onboard recommendations acknowledge` marks the stored offer answered.
+The acknowledgement is idempotent.
+
 - `--classic`: opens the full step-by-step wizard. It cannot be combined with
   `--non-interactive`; omit `--classic` for automated setup.
 - `--flow quickstart`: opens the classic wizard with minimal prompts and